That's 1 of my hardest lessons, but I suppose 1 i'll have to keep reminding myself about.I wonder if perhaps i'm the only 1 that gets into messy situations where i just have to say my 2 cents worth or the world seems like it will come to an end.
Well i did that;enough times -but this time it came out harsh , unforgiving , mean and aggressive .I totally lost the plot, got fluffy(emotional to the point of mushy disorientation) and sobbed.Then i let anger , disapproval , distrust and maybe other things express themselves ...
all i wanted to do was make my point known.Now its known alright but as far as every1 is concerned , its not worth listening to a ravin lunatic;so they betta move on b4 she starts all over again:-(
So anyway the point is try to be assertive without being aggressive.If u have a valid point to make , no1 wants to be confronted by a loony bin that seems to have a personal vendetta against the world. Jus say wat needs to be sed, wen it needs 2 b sed.It'll probably b best.
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lol dude we all done this from one time or another. but key is not to feel to bad about it. in the end no1 is perfect cause we all human. live and learn.
as for being assertive, u right, more composure = more listeining. but in the end no matter how right u are, or how well u convey that. you cant change a person's mind if they dont want to change or see a differant point of view. :-)
every1 is stubborn i know i am too :-)
but just keep it up, and rem ure 2cents is important no matter how small
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