That's 1 of my hardest lessons, but I suppose 1 i'll have to keep reminding myself about.I wonder if perhaps i'm the only 1 that gets into messy situations where i just have to say my 2 cents worth or the world seems like it will come to an end.
Well i did that;enough times -but this time it came out harsh , unforgiving , mean and aggressive .I totally lost the plot, got fluffy(emotional to the point of mushy disorientation) and sobbed.Then i let anger , disapproval , distrust and maybe other things express themselves ...
all i wanted to do was make my point known.Now its known alright but as far as every1 is concerned , its not worth listening to a ravin lunatic;so they betta move on b4 she starts all over again:-(
So anyway the point is try to be assertive without being aggressive.If u have a valid point to make , no1 wants to be confronted by a loony bin that seems to have a personal vendetta against the world. Jus say wat needs to be sed, wen it needs 2 b sed.It'll probably b best.
